By O.Idunnu
They say a woman is to become like a man when her husband is no longer there, what of a man when his wife is no longer there? Does he become a woman? No, that is an “insult”.Being likened to a woman is used as a condescending and derogatory term.
I believe that a woman has to become stronger when she loses her husband but that is not “becoming a man” but a better version of herself. She isn’t a “man” but a WOMAN the strongest being you could ever be, carrying the most puzzling thing, a human inside of you and still having the strength to fight, to hold on and to work.
This is in and of itself extraordinary.They say “It sure isn’t that hard or tasking”, you are belittled and your pain rendered an exaggeration or pretense. Looked down upon has weak and unable. Called names like fluff head and pretty head but once you try to show that you are more than just that the names become more insulting.
Will you stand by and watch that happen or take a stand and assist those who have been trampled upon?That inner strength is better than the physical strength because the latter might fail but the former shall forever be. I implore you to not lose spirit but to recharge and announce that “Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned”
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